Article  written By Alexandra Scott

The last thing that you probably want to do is waste your time in a relationship with a guy who isn’t really all that serious about you. To spend time with someone only to realize that you were way more serious about the relationship than they were can be a humbling and even humiliating experience. You probably are not looking for that to happen, so you may be interested in figuring out whether or not the guy you are with is really serious about you or if you are just wasting your time.

Here are 3 clues that he is NOT really serious about being with you:

1) He makes just about everything else in his life a priority over you.

Does he seem to break plans with you whenever anything else comes up? Is he the kind of guy who will blow off date night with you just to go hang out with the guys at the bar and shoot some pool? If he is willing to ditch you for something else most of the time, I’d hate to say it, but he is probably not that serious about you. When a guy is serious about a woman he is dating, he’ll make sure that he spends time with her.

2) He doesn’t want to talk about the future with you.

Have you tried to get him talking about future plans with you and every time that you do, he seems to find a way to talk about something else or he just flat out makes it clear that he doesn’t like to talk about that stuff? While it is true that some guys just have a really hard time talking about future plans, usually they will at least try and give it some effort if they are really serious about the relationship working out. If he is unwilling to even give it a shot, then chances are it is because he is not that serious about the relationship.

3) He talks about other women in front of you.

I don’t mean talking about celebrities that he is never going to meet. I mean, does he talk about women that pass by when you are out with him and make comments that show he is still kind of looking around? That would probably be a good indication that he is the kind of guy who will up and leave if he feels like he can “upgrade” and that is probably not the kind of guy you want to be with.

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